The ideal prod/eng dynamic is a cooperative, push/pull, yin-yang type thing -- two unique skill sets coming together, focusing on respective strengths, and cranking out useful tech. But that's the ideal. I offer up ten core tenets for fostering a healthy version of the special relationship.
The North Fork is Long Island's laid back, down to earth neighbor to the Hamptons, and one of my favorite places to be. Wine, good food, good people, and unadulterated nature abound. I keep a list of my favorite places that might help you plan your visit (but shhhhhhhh!).